SUBJECT: MBC Good Friday Service Info. & Guidance for Communion Participation

Midlothian Bible Church Family,

In this challenging and unique time our world is facing, the calling of the church has not changed. We are still called to glorify God, proclaim the Gospel, and make disciples of Jesus Christ. As a church, we state our mission this way:

Midlothian Bible Church seeks to glorify God and make disciples by bringing people together through the Gospel and building up mature followers of Christ.

As we approach this Easter weekend, there are several opportunities to continue working toward this mission.

GOOD FRIDAY SERVICE PLANS & ENCOURAGEMENT

First, you can join us virtually on Good Friday. We will post a brief, reflective service on our YouTube channel at 4pm on April 10^th.  Since it will be pre-recorded, you will be able watch at the time of your convenience thereafter.  I want to encourage you as a family or individually to join in this service. Follow along as I lead you through communion. If you are at home by yourself, I would encourage you after the service to use a video chat service to share in communion with a friend or family member. Another option is to contact the church office at info@midlothianbible.org  in order to arrange for a church leader to lead you through communion sometime over the Easter weekend.

PURPOSE OF COMMUNION

On Friday, I will be sharing a message from Luke 22:14-20. This is when Jesus instituted the ordinance of Communion, also called the Lord’s Supper, during the celebration of Passover on the eve of His Crucifixion. Christ brought the ultimate significance to this Passover meal by associating the sacrificing of His blood and body for the atonement of mankind with the symbolic use of the bread and wine. The eating of the bread reminds believers of Christ’s bodily substitution for us and the benefits we gain from this substitutionary death (Matt. 26:26; Lk. 22:19; Jn. 6:53-57; 1 Cor. 11:24; 1 Pt. 2:24).  The wine of the cup reminds believers of the all-sufficient, perfect blood sacrifice Christ provided on our behalf which provides redemption and forgiveness from sins once and for all (Matt. 26:27-28; Lk. 22:20; Jn. 6:53-57; 1 Cor. 11:25; Eph. 1:7; Heb. 10:1-22).

But the Lord’s Supper is more than just a reminder of what Christ has accomplished in His death. It is encouragement to believers that Christ now abides in us (Jn. 6:53-57).  It is an opportunity to proclaim Christ’s saving work (1 Cor. 11:26). It is a chance to celebrate the unity believers have together in Christ as He resides in each believer (1 Cor. 10:27; Matt. 18:20). In light of this unity, the fellowship of the communion meal is not to be taken lightly. Believers should examine their lives and make sure they are in right relationship with fellow believers (1 Cor. 11:27-29).  As a united family of believers, we can also look forward to the reunion and future meal with the Savior who made salvation possible (Matt. 26:29; 1 Cor. 11:26; Rev. 19:1-10).

PREPARATION & SIMPLE GUIDE FOR COMMUNION AT HOME

Preparation for the Good Friday Service & Communion

• Have the Communion elements ready: unleavened bread (for Christ’s body) and juice (for Christ’s blood). If you are unable to get these elements, use something close to it. What is most important is your heart’s response to Jesus Christ and His work on the cross for you.
• Take time to examine your heart. (1 Cor. 11:27-29) See the article “What does it mean to examine yourself (1 Corinthians 11:28)?”  by clicking here (https://www.gotquestions.org/examine-yourself.html )
• Remember that this is a spiritual heart “checkup.” It is not meant to imply that perfection is necessary to take communion.  Instead we should ask, “Do I understand what the Lord Supper means and am I taking it for the right reasons? Am I seeking to follow Christ or are there areas of my life I am not letting Him lead?” Confess what comes to mind when asking those questions and ask Him to empower you to repent and pursue Him.
• If there is unresolved conflict in your life, ask the Lord if reconciliation is possible and how He would have you seek it (Matthew 5:23).  See the Four G’s of Peacemaking https://rw360.org/the-four-gs/ or the Peace Making Pamphlet https://rw360.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/Peacemaking-Principles-Pamphlet.pdf
• Reflect on all Jesus did and went through to pay the penalty for your sin.  Reading through Matthew 26 -27 will help you reflect.
• Participate in the Good Friday service. Sing along and take communion when instructed.

Guidance for taking Communion via video chat with a friend, family, or small group

• Read through one of the following passages: Matthew 26:17-30; Mark 14:23-26; Luke 22:7-23.
• Then read though one of the following passages: Matthew 27:15-61; Mark 15:1-47; Luke 23:1-56; John 19:1-42
• Ask one person to pray for the bread and lead in this first part of communion. Here’s an example:

Person holds the bread up as a symbol of Jesus’ body and says, “Jesus asked us to eat this bread to remember that He gave His body for us. Let’s pray.

‘God, thank You for sending Jesus who not only lived for us, but died for us. The Son of God, who came in the body of a man, gave Himself up so we could live! Thank You that His body was raised back to life. Thank You that because of the grace of Jesus we have real life, and we can live forever in You. Amen.’

Okay, go ahead and eat the bread.”

excerpt from – https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/coronavirus/the-power-of-receiving-communion-at-home-during-quarantine.html

• Next, have someone pray for the cup and lead in this second part of communion. Here’s an example:

Person holds the cup as a symbol of Jesus’ blood and says, “Jesus asked us to drink this cup to remember that our sins are washed away by the powerful new covenant Jesus made possible between us and God. Let’s pray.

‘God, what an incredible picture this is of Your love for us. You allowed Your only Son to literally be poured out so that we could be in a fully restored relationship with You. Thank You, Jesus, for giving your blood. Amen.’

Go ahead and drink the cup.”

(from https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/coronavirus/the-power-of-receiving-communion-at-home-during-quarantine.html)

• Encourage group members to offer prayers of praise and thanksgiving to God.

Helpful articles for questions about communion:

• What is the importance of the Lord’s supper/Christian Communion? https://www.gotquestions.org/communion-Christian.html INCLUDES ANIMATED VIDEO FOR CHILDREN TO WATCH.
• What is the meaning and importance of the Last Supper? https://www.gotquestions.org/Last-Supper.html
• When should children be baptized and/or allowed to take the Lord’s Supper? https://www.gotquestions.org/children-baptism-communion.html
• What did Jesus mean when He said, “This is my body, broken for you”? https://www.gotquestions.org/this-is-my-body-broken-for-you.html
• Is it acceptable to have communion outside of the church? https://www.gotquestions.org/communion-outside-church.html

I pray that the above information will be a help in strengthening your faith and equipping you to help others pursue Jesus Christ. May we all continue to encourage each other in our walk with Jesus and sharing of the Gospel with others.

By His grace,

Pastor, Midlothian Bible Church

Hey, MBC Family!

Sermon Recap:

Choosing Faith Over Fear: Utilize Your Helper

Key Passage: John 14: 15-17

Jesus Understands:

“Now is my soul troubled. And what shall I say? ‘Father, save me from this hour’? But for this purpose I have come to this hour. John 12:27

Utilize your Helper, the Holy Spirit

Trust in Christ your Savior

Set your minds on things of the Spirit

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.  Philippians 4:8

Walk by the Spirit

But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. Galatians 5:16

A story came to mind when I listened to Pastor Matt’s sermon again. It was from when I was about thirteen years old.  That year, I got a guitar for Christmas.  This was before Google and YouTube, so I went to the used bookstore and got a book on how to teach myself how to play guitar.

According to the book, the first step in learning to play the guitar was learning how to tune the guitar.  I remember sitting on my bed with the guitar in my hands.  I plucked a string and then tried to match that sound when I plucked another string. However, a strange thing kept happening.  When I turned the tuning peg to tighten the string and raise its pitch, the sound got lower. I couldn’t figure it out, so I checked the book again.  Yes. The book said, “Tighten the string to raise the pitch.”  So I kept tightening and tightening the tuning peg, but the sound coming from the string got lower and lower.

At the exact moment I realized I was tightening the wrong tuning peg, the string snapped and recoiled into my face not even a centimeter from my eye.  It left a painful, spiral-shaped welt on my cheek for several days.  The string’s pitch wasn’t getting lower and lower.  I was tightening the wrong peg.

I think this was the point when I decided the guitar wasn’t the instrument for me (I ended up taking up the bass).  I needed help.  I needed someone or something to help me make the music I wanted to play sound good. At a minimum–I needed an electronic tuner.  Electronic tuners have a display. Some special tuners for beginners even show a picture of the neck of the guitar and the peg that needs adjustment to achieve the correct pitch (if the guitar starts out mostly in tune). 

This example came to mind because it reminded me of what Matt described as “walking in the flesh” instead of utilizing our Helper and walking in the Spirit.

Tuning the guitar like I was trying to do with no knowledge of what to do and without an electronic tuner can be like when I try and live in my own strength–when I walk in the flesh.  I work harder and harder to do more or to be better.  That’s when the string that is my life gets tighter and tighter.  I feel like I’m going to snap.  And sometimes I even do snap—just like that guitar string.  I apply too much tension and pressure to the wrong place—on the wrong string, as it were.

Using an electronic tuner takes the pressure away.  It helps diagnose the problem more efficiently and correctly.  It shows exactly what I need to do to make the guitar sound good, and it even gives me guidance on how to achieve the right sound.  This is like what happens when I rely on the Helper Jesus said was available to me.  I need to remember to walk by the Spirit by getting into and meditating on God’s word.  Then my life–like a guitar–will get into tune. It will sound better overall.  And most importantly, He’ll keep me from snapping.

Noteworthy:

This Friday, April 10th, we will be posting a Good Friday devotional from Pastor Matt at 4pm to our YouTube channel.  (click here) Please join in and watch with your family.  Pastor Matt will also be encouraging you to take communion as part of his message, so you might want to have some juice and bread handy to use in your own houses.

On Sunday morning, April 12th, we will be posting a pre-recorded Easter message on our YouTube channel.  Make sure you have subscribed or our channel, so you receive notifications as soon as we post this and any other content.

We so appreciate those of you who have continued to give during this time—both to the general fund and to the benevolence ministry. If you have questions about how to send in your tithes and offerings, please email the church office (click here).

We also appreciate hearing your praises and prayer requests!  Please keep sending them in to your small group leaders or directly to us by clicking here

Finally, many of our ministries have continued to connect with people despite the Shelter-in-Place order.  For example, MBC Kids has its own Facebook page where they stream lessons and post activities. Our MBC Student and Young Adult ministries, along with several Sunday School and LIFE groups, have found their groove using Zoom to meet virtually.  Please email the church office (click here) if you are having trouble using any of these applications or if you are starting to feel disconnected.  We are here for you and would love to help you get plugged into a group to help you find encouragement in these difficult times.

To Sum Up—

I know it’s hard to keep track of which day is what in our “new normal,” but during this week, try to take time to reflect on why Easter is so meaningful. Jesus died, but He didn’t stay dead!  God demonstrated His power when defeated death and brought His Son back to life.  He confirmed His Word to be true and thereby showed we can put our faith in Him.  As we remember Good Friday and then celebrate Easter Sunday, may we be thankful for the Helper He has provided us.  You don’t need to “tune your guitar alone.”  Utilize the Holy Spirit so God can make His beautiful music happen through you.

In service to Him and to you,
Heather Hogue

Hey, MBC Family!

Sermon Recap:

I really connected with two of the illustrations Matt used in his sermon, Choosing Faith over Fear, Anxiety, and Worry: Listen to Wisdom, Learn to Trust God.

First, I identified with Matt’s visual aid of the backpack.  As he packed it full of books, we could all see it get heavier and heavier.  It was easy to picture how that could weigh a person down (Prov 12:25). A heavy backpack is even worse when you try and carry it by only one strap.  Matt and I are about the same age, so I can verify that the “cool” way to carry a backpack when we were in high school was to wear it over only one shoulder.  I even had to go see a doctor for back pain in high school because I routinely carried such a heavy backpack on just one shoulder.  The doctor ordered me to lighten up and use both straps. 

That illustration reminded me a little of my life right now.  I need to lighten up my backpack. And I need to put on both straps.  I need to take out some of the “books” that are causing me stress right now—“books” like how stay healthy during a pandemic, “books” like how to make it through a financial crisis, “books” like how to take care of elderly parents, and others.  Are your titles similar to mine?  If so, let’s put them down together. We don’t need to be carrying around that weight right now. We only need One Book.  Also, we need to put on both straps!!!  Proverbs 3:5-6 says that when we trust God (strap 1) and lean on Him rather than our own understanding (strap 2), He will make our way straight.  He’s got a journey ahead of us, and we can trust that He’ll direct us in the way to go and provide what we need to make it all the way to the end!

Second, I connected with Matt’s description of worry as a leash that can choke.  When Matt described their new puppy, Ruby, wrapped around the pole in his backyard, it reminded me of when Mike and I were first married.  Instead of having kids right away, we adopted two very large dogs—a German Shepherd and a Chow/Shepherd/Rottweiler mix (140 lbs).  We enjoyed them (mostly), and I think they enjoyed being our pets except for when we went to visit Mike’s parents.  No matter how cold or wet it was, our dogs had to stay outside at their house.  And Mike’s parents’ yard wasn’t fenced. So that meant that our dogs spent their time tied up to a tree in their front yard.  Once, Mike’s dad even forgot (at least he says he forgot) to turn off their automatic sprinkler system.  We woke up early that morning to the frantic crying of two wet and shivering dogs, crazy out of their minds, and nose-to-nose with each other because they were completely wound up around the tree. 

Too often, I’m like that.  I start off okay, and I leave plenty of room for my mind to just “roam.”  But if I let my mind wander into “worry territory,” I get more and more frantic.  Before I know it, whatever issue I was struggling with suddenly is bigger and more frightening, and I’m wrapped in a leash of worry around my own tree of despair, barely able to breathe.  A verse that helps me when I find myself in this position is 2 Cor 10:5.  It says, “We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God. We are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.”  Take that worry!  I use that exhortation to help me cut the leash of worry from my thoughts!  It takes work and concentration, but it’ worth it.  The freedom from worry that follows is glorious.

Finally, a part of Matt’s sermon which made me laugh (besides several of the closed captions) was when he described how he hid the “lunch notes of encouragement” his mom wrote him when he was younger. I can picture Jacqueline Reynolds penning Proverbs 3:5-6 in beautiful handwriting to encourage her son when he sat down to eat his lunch.  And I can picture him trying to keep his friends from reading those notes.  It reminded me of how I used to draw bugs flying airplanes on Mike’s brown paper lunch bags to let him know I loved him when he was in pilot training.  (It’s a stretch, I know…) I can only imagine now how embarrassed he must have been pulling those out in front of his classmates!  However, just like Matt’s mom used an “unconventional method” to encourage her son, we need to use all the tools in our creative arsenal to help the ones we love to stand firm in the Lord against attacks of fear, anxiety, and worry.

Noteworthy:

• The MBC Prayer Team needs YOU!  If you are interested in joining our staff in praying for the requests of the body each week, please reply to this email by clicking here.
• Doug Arendsee’s class “Engaging Mind and Culture” will be starting up again via Zoom THIS WEEK, on THURSDAY nights at 7pm to give more people the opportunity to attend.  This will also hopefully help free up bandwidth in your homes since ReGen and our MBC Student ministry programs are still meeting remotely on Wednesday evenings!  Please email him by clicking here if you’re interested., and he will send you a link to the Zoom meeting!  
• Mike Hogue would also love to have you “Zoom” in for his Sunday night Revelation Bible Study!  Please email him (click here) if you’re interested in joining his 6pm meeting!
• Don’t forget to visit the MBC YouTube channel (click here) to view past sermon streams, “Songs to Encourage,” help for homeschooling your kids, and entertaining Bible stories.  We try and add content almost everyday.  Over the last two weeks, our content has been viewed over 1700 times by over 600 unique viewers!  Next up!  A 14 day fitness challenge for ladies! If you have ideas for new material, let me know by clicking here.  Be sure to check it out! 
• Thank you for continuing to watch the live streams of our service and for continuing to send in your gifts!  We have heard your feedback, and while the closed captions were a good idea in theory, we will be removing them from the stream this week.  Let us know if you have any other suggestions to improve the digital delivery of the service!

On that note, let’s be sensitive to those around us this week. Just like Matt’s mom and her “lunch notes of encouragement,”  we need to get creative and help reassure the people in our lives that no matter how bad this gets, with Christ, we don’t need to be filled with fear, anxiety, or worry.  We just need to have faith and trust in our Heavenly Father.

He’s got this.  And He’s got us, too.

In service to Him and to you,
Heather Hogue

Hey, MBC Family!

The theme of Matt’s message this past Sunday was replacing fear with prayerful dependence on God.  I loved that.  However, in appropriate amounts, fear can be a gift from God.  It heightens our senses and makes us more aware of our surroundings.  It is essential for survival.  So where is the balance between fear and prayerful dependence?  Can we embrace a sharpening of our senses while still maintaining a sense of peace and calm?  As I talked with Mike about intersection of healthy fear and faith, I came up with an example which might help explain how we can have both—a little bit of fear overcome by a whole lot of faith and dependence on our Heavenly Father.

Mike and I both love roller coasters.  I went on my first roller coaster during a choir competition at Hershey Park (Pennsylvania) when I was in the 8th grade, and from that day on I was hooked.  Mike, being a pilot, has always loved amusement park rides that go fast and high up in the air (Except those that spin. Mike hates spinning. In fact, spinning to any pilot is very bad. Go watch the movie Top Gun if you don’t believe me.) So when we have visited amusement parks, we like to “help” our children overcome their innate fear of these high-speed steel trains.  Usually we “help” them by offering some sort of delayed gratification or reward for them to enjoy AFTER they ride (yes, purists might call that a bribe, but hear me out).

To motivate our first-born to ride the “Superman” roller coaster at Six Flags Fiesta Texas, she only needed the promise of a $20 bill. Done. Our son, Josh, was even easier.  He overcame his fear of the “Rockin’ Roller Coaster” at Disney’s Hollywood Studios with the promise of a frozen lemonade. Chloe rode Space Mountain and came home with a Stitch stuffed animal.  Our second-born’s story had a similar beginning, but included a twist.

One trip to Disney World, Abby saw a tye-dyed, rainbow t-shirt at the “Rockin’ Roller Coaster” gift shop and her eyes shined with longing. It was the perfect incentive for us to use to help her overcome her fear.  While she was just tall enough to meet the minimum height requirement for the ride, she was filled with the maximum amount of terror.  This bore itself out as she cried quiet tears the entire time we snaked our way through queue. We finally got to the front of the line.  Mike ducked out to ride in a car with our other daughter, and I was left as Abby’s “Ride Buddy.” 

We strapped in and pulled down the safety bars.  Abby was openly sobbing at this point, and I was starting to feel a blush of embarrassment as others looked at me in harsh judgment.  I continued to console her and reminded her of the prize that waited for her at the end of the ride—the beautiful rainbow t-shirt.  It didn’t help.  By this time, even I was praying that we could just get the whole episode behind us.  Then, one of the ride attendants looked at Abby, at me, back at Abby, and signaled for the ride operator to halt. The. Entire. Ride. 

He approached the side of the car that Abby was on, and got down on his knees so he was eye-to-eye with Abby, and stated with no apology whatsoever, “Young lady, we are about creating magic here.  If you don’t want to ride this ride, your mother cannot make you.” And with that he gave me an evil, condescending glare, as did everyone else standing in the line waiting to ride the next train.  I was mortified and looked away while trying to shrink into the back of my seat. Mike pretended like he had never seen either of us before. “Now if you, and not your mother, really want to ride this ride, you need to give me a thumbs up.  If you don’t, we’ll get you off right here and there’s nothing your mom can do about it. But only look at me. Not your mom. I need to see your thumb up.”

“So what will it be?”

All of us held our breath.  I was almost afraid to look.  But I had to know!  What would she choose???  I caught a glimpse of her fist out of the corner of my eye.  At first, it just looked as though she was getting ready to punch the seat back in front of her.  However, her thumb creeped upward, and before I fully saw what happened, the ride attendant yelled out, “Okay then!” and we took off.

I couldn’t see much of her during the actual ride, but after the first loop, I did see that she managed to crack a tearful smile.  By the end of the ride, she was beaming.  Not only had she conquered her fear, she knew a prize was waiting for her in the gift shop.  The rainbow t-shirt.

So how does all this relate to corona virus and Matt’s sermon on overcoming fear with prayerful dependence?

  My point is this–Abby was able to overcome her fear because:

1. She wanted the reward.
2. She trusted us. 

She knew that we would be faithful to our word. If she faced her fear, we would reward her in the end.

Break. Break. Life is hard.  Life is also scary.  Sometimes, it feels like a roller coaster.  (Do you see where I am going with this?)  However, our Heavenly Father has made a promise to us.  Many promises, actually. Including, but not limited to:

• He will never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5b-6).  
• We can do all things through His strength (Phil 4:13).
• He will reward us when we remain steadfast under trial (James 1:12)

These rewards may not be on this earth, but they are coming.  And according to Ephesians 3:20, they’re exceedingly, abundantly more than we could even ask or imagine. 

Sometimes, we just need to grab onto our heavenly Father’s hand, suck in our breath, and get ready for the ride.  It might feel too fast. Too steep. Too scary.  But God’s got this.  He designed the ride.  He knows it isn’t going to fail.  And He has promised us a special reward at the end. The fact that God raised Jesus from the dead shows that He is all-powerful.  He can be trusted to do what He says. And, just like the rainbow on Abby’s desired t-shirt can remind us, God always keeps His promises.

Noteworthy:

• To be honest, we’re all kind of watching to see how the COVID-19 crisis will play out.  Mike and I live in Tarrant County and as of midnight tonight, we are ordered to stay in our homes.  We’ve heard that Ellis County has issued their own order.  While we won’t be in the office, I know the entire staff wants to stay connected to all of you.  Please continue to email us your prayer requests, questions, and feedback. (Click here)  While there won’t be someone there answer your calls, PLEASE leave a voicemail!  This goes straight to my inbox as an email.  I WILL CALL YOU BACK!
• The building will now be closed, but we want to do everything we can to stay connected to you. In fact, we will be live streaming our Wednesday night youth worship and teaching time on our Facebook page and our YouTube channel.  I will send out these links as they become available tomorrow. We are particularly excited to have people join us because the worship and teaching will both be led by Ezekiel Garcia, one of our youth pastor candidates!  Youth will have the chance to join small group breakouts via zoom after the main session by clicking on one of the following links:
  • Middle School:  Click here
  • High School: Click here

• I hope you’ve gone ahead and subscribed to our YouTube channel!  Click here This is where we will be live streaming all of our sermons from in the future.  In addition, we add new content almost everyday, and I have curated playlists for encouraging songs, Bible stories for kids, devotions for women, KETO recipes, movie reviews, and Bible study aids.  Matt will also be launching his “Psalms to Calm the Soul” series there soon.  And we’d love to put up even more of your content!  So record yourself playing a favorite hymn on the guitar or piano. Talk about something the Lord has been teaching you.  Share a way to get through a tough teaching day with your kids.  And send me the link to the video.  I’d love to include you in this online community.
• As I mentioned, the service this Sunday will be live-streamed again on our Facebook page and our YouTube channel.  Please make an effort to pray for each other. Stay plugged in and connected to your LIFE groups.  In fact, the Revelation study LIFE group will be “zooming” starting this Sunday. Don’t feel like you had to start from the beginning.  Mike would love to have you join the study.  Email me (click here) for more information if you are interested in joining this group.

So while you may feel like you’re riding an out-of-control roller coaster, know that the One sitting next to you has the whole world in His hands.  He’s got you.  And He’s got this.  He’ll reward those who choose faith and prayerful dependence over fear.

In service to Him and to you,
Heather Hogue